RE: Money and Respect
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Do you think your friend deserve respect? I don't think so. I want to know what is his contribution in this relationship a in recent time. Let me see it from different perspective. Your friend started to depended on her for finance. Do you think it's ok? Does your friend respect her actually? I don't think so, at least in that case he could try to be better with time. Isn't it ridiculous when a person says his beloved is not respecting him when he doesn't have self respect? It's not for the money and I also want to suggest the lady to free from such kind of of shameless person.
As a debater It's my habit to see things from different perspective and I choose to share the perspective here although I don't know the whole situation. Do you think if there is anything wrong with this perspective?
So you're saying he doesn't deserve respect because he recently hasn't been contributing?
Does that mean that when he starts financing everything again like he was doing in the past before his financial issues, he can start disrespecting her too?
Because from your logic, it means the poor person in the relationship doesn't deserve any respect..yes?
Recent means. Can you limit the time frame? I am sure such a thing doesn't happen within a few weeks.
She is self-dependent, and I guess she doesn't need your friend's money. I am sure she will break up for sure when your friend starts to disrespect her.
Your friend wants to carry on such a relationship where his partner doesn't respect him. Don't you think it's shameful enough? A relationship without respect is kind of a joke to me. How can you expect respect for such a person who doesn't give respect to himself?
It's not only about the finances. It's about the mentality. Your friend can't give her the sense of security that he will do better in the upcoming days.
If I were in your place, my suggestion would be "Make money, show how capable you are, and earn respect by your own effort" rather than giving sympathy to him.
Ohh okay.. I think I get what you're saying now. That is, rather that be in a relationship that he can't afford, he should work hard, make money and earn the respect he so much desires.
Hmm. I am not against love, but when without respect, is there any love actually? Again, her action already give him the bitter feeling, and It's not going to heal easily either. Things will end up even, actually. He is just delaying the process and losing his respect. As a man, I believe that self-respect is the most important thing.