RE: What Are Your Thoughts
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I wouldn't advise that he cut off his friends. I can understand the girls insecurity or jealousy. Some girls need constant reassurance and that's probably the case in this situation. He needs to keep reminding her that she's the one he loves and thatdespite how much he loves her, he still needs to have other friends.
I would say though that he needs to reduce his interactions with women, because that'll just make his girl more jealous or insecure and that's not good for anyone.
If he cuts off all his friends, what if he breaks up with his girlfriend at some point? Because that's enirely possible. As much we love our partners, we need to be foresighted enough to make decisions that won't leave us devastated and alone if we ever break up. Cutting off all his female friends will mean that if his relationship ever doesn't work out, he has no females friends also. A double loss.
Well I get your point but I honestly don't think that he has to constantly reassure her that he loves her.. That honestly doesn't sound healthy to me because if you're always doubting my love for you, then we shouldn't even be together.
It’s complicated. Her needing reassurance doesn’t really mean she doesn’t trust you. It’s probably just about her being insecure and nothing to do with her not trusting that you love her. She trusts you all right, she just needs to hear you tell her certain things frequently to reassure her.