IF LOVE...

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For some reason, if in the name of love, your growth is diminishing.
If for love you stop eating well, reasoning well, acting well.
If because of love you are no longer present in family gatherings or seen among friends and loved ones
If for love you are giving up on your goals, your visions, your dreams.
If in the name of love, your kind of person is changing but not in a positive way.
If for love things aren't going well again in your life
If because of love your level of understanding has changed from good to bad.
IF LOVE could do all of these to you, then, please desert it, reject it, and flee from it.



Love wasn't meant to make us become a worse version of ourselves.
Love wasn't meant to ruin or to destroy, it was meant to build and to rebuild.
Love shouldn't be the cause of your downfall but rather it should be the pillars to which you find your balance and stand firm.
Love was not supposed to make you depreciate, instead, it was meant to make you appreciate.
Love entails growth and it involves so many other good packages.
Love isn't evil and shouldn't be treated as one except it turns that way and for such, it should be avoided.



Your life shouldn't become a mess simply because you say you love someone or that you are in love.
Love makes one become better and not the opposite.
If because of love you change from being a good person to the bad one then be careful what love has made out of you.
Love corrects all wrongs and not creates them.

There are so many good things love does and if you claim to be in love and there are no good sides to your love or what you feel then I would say you should rather let go of such before it is too late.
If love can make anything out of you, it should be something good. Beware!



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Love should always bring out the best in you. @ryzeonline taught me this. I used to think love was pain, sacrifice, and lying. I spent too many years thinking I couldn't be the real me. But Jay showed me that's because it wasn't really love. I was doing what I was taught by others around me and they're wrong.

Love truly is patient and kind (and all the other things in that bible verse that I can't remember now lol).

Real love lifts us up, wants us to win, and makes us better. It never puts us down, or makes us feel less than, or wants us to give up things we love. Real love encourages and shows us how to be better, together.

great post. I feel so full of love and happy now. I appreciate it.

Much love,
Cyn

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Wow! I am super glad to read this great and awesome feedback from you @cynshineonline
It's nice to hear that your friend came along and taught you better things about love as encrypted in the scriptures other than what other people told you or said about love

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If love can make anything out of you, it should be something good.

Because of love you should want to be better not worse, love is all the good things and it shouldn't be toxic, making you do the things you shouldn't be doing.

Love is not all the things that make it seem like war, if you're not growing because of love then it isn't love, if you're not pushing harder on your dreams and goals because of love then it isn't love.

Love should bring out the best in you and that is when you know it's indeed love.

Great post!


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Exactly Blezyn dear.
Love should be able to bring out the best in us and not our worst or the opposite

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I think we got the same thinking right here, I read someone WhatsApp status that was saying the same things and I asked myself, what then would we say when someone who because of his or her love for someone desert the people they once called family and friends to the extent of marrying the person who is the reason why they dessert these people, does it mean it is not true love?

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Hmmm. I wouldn't have an answer to that though. But anything that makes one become a worst person than they were shouldn't be considered as love I guess.

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Factual words!
It is true actually. People easily get strayed away and start thinking "I am so in love but even if he/she treats me unwell I still need to be with them, I am in love". IRONIC. It is really ironic how our minds work and the many potholes it has.

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Very ironic my dear.
How would someone say he is she is in love with all the negativities that follow?

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hahaha they must have a high tolerance level and maybe sadistic too to fall in love with the negative side of oneself 🤣 though I shouldn't judge, for some specific situations, this is exactly what goes in my mind. Obviously, this can't be applicable for all the situations yet are for some.

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Lol. You are real trouble hahaha.
It's still lovely to say your mind. I love when people give their opinions about a thing

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