Wooing 101
There's a saying that two heads are better than one. And people mostly use this saying whenever they're in trouble and need solution to that problem from other people. Well ladies and gentlemen, I have decided to bring my problem to you guys, I need your wisdom.
There are two questions that I've always asked myself. The first question I've decided to not bother getting an answer to because it might make me run mad, but the second, I have vowed to get an answer to. The first one is where did God come from?
I've tried getting an answer to that but it just seems like the deeper I go, the more lost I get. So I've decided to just leave that until I meet with him personally.
Now the second question is something that has been bothering me for quiet some time now. Its actually a simple question and might seem foolish, but this is something that is bothering a lot of guys too. I personally know someone like @starstrings01 is facing this problem.
Now for those of you wondering what it is, it goes like this "What do you guys say to the ladies when you approach them for the first time?"
Like we (I and the rest of the guys who are too shy to ask) need to know. I've been in some relationships in my life but I never really wooed anyone by stopping them on the road to talk to them. Nope, I kinda have my method and they work most of the time. Unfortunately I can't share them with you guys because its kinda like a family secret.
Anyways, irrespective of the fact that I have my ways, I've always been curious about what guys say to random ladies that they meet for the first time. I've asked a couple of my male friends and all they did was laugh and make fun of me because they're stupid boys 😂 so I stopped asking. I also asked some of my very close female friends and while some claim that they forget whatever the guy says to them the next minute, some told me some very crazy and dumb things that some guys do say to them. Some of this things are so dumb that I refuse to believe that someone would actually walk up to a lady and say those things to her.
Anyways, it's back to you guys.. Guys, what do you say to the ladies and ladies, what's the most stupid thing a guy said to you the first time y'all met.
Lol.. funny enough, I can walk up to any lady and talk to her but it is mostly on my mood. Been a while I did this. I guess you must be surprised.
What I do is, when I see a lady randomly, I just walk up to her and introduce myself briefly, she may be in a hurry, then I would compliment her ( don't overdo it), and from there ask for her number so you can get to know her more. You need to do this not more than 4-5 minutes so that you don't keep her waiting for too long.
You know all of this and you're still single... I refuse to believe 😂
You refuse to believe what exactly?
Everything you've said bro.. I refuse to believe that you're that bold and I'm not 😭
Right now, I no fit count how many times I have done what I just told you and it working.
Also don’t try what I told you if you are not looking nice, neat and smelling nice. No girl would want to drop her money for a guy who is not attractive.
Alright coach 😁.
This is pretty good. Maybe check my comment and make some corrections for me as well.😁
Lol 😂. Okay I am going there
Basically, meeting a female stranger is very simple to me, I talk to them casually as I do talk to guys, and I believe that helps in keeping everything as cordial as ever, making it possible for me to easily ask her put without first given the impression that I want to ask her out
Well that's nice.. I guess I'm just not bold enough.. At least not yet 😅
Not that I’n an expert at wooing or anything, but if you’re already wondering what to say to a girl when you meet her, chances are that you’ll fumble if you actually walk up to her. My advice, just go in blind if you don’t know what to say.
You could even say “Hey, I saw you from over there, and even though I don’t really know what to say, I just thought I should come say hi”. This way, you’re already letting her know you’re not much of a talker, and that she shouldn’t expect a mind blowing conversation(at the moment). Then from there you can introduce yourself. “I’m Hamza, but my friends call me Zology”. If she’s interested, I assume she’ll say something funny about you saying you didn’t know what to say, and most likely tell you her name too.
From here, the conversation flows organically. There’s no hack to it really. Everyone has how they go about it. But from what I know and have seen, being yourself and just staying relaxed is the key. Say whatever comes to your mind. Just don’t be rude. Girls find random shit funny or cute(or not). Idk. Anyways good luck man.
As for the issue with God, even though I don’t like it, my brain is a master of it’s own and wonders deep into thoughts when left alone. So the question of where God came from pops up a lot for me too.
Hmm staying relax surely do let you flow well. Also its better when the girl is the type that makes good conversations but if she’s the shy type, there might be little problem oh.
Wahala 😂😂😂
Did you say your friends call you Zology? 😂😂😂
I like the advise though.. I just have to be calm and then flow, got it.
Zology seems to be funny to you lol.
I’m glad you’re taking my advise. I wish I took my own advise myself.😅