Not a Saint
A couple of days ago, someone was arrested by the state CID after he allegedly beat his girlfriend. He had no idea that his girlfriend had an uncle who knew the right people to call. After he was taken away for interrogation, I and a couple of friends started talking about how far a woman can push us for us to raise our hand on them.
Trust me, this isn’t one of those blogs where I’m going to pretend like nothing on earth is going to make me hit a woman. I can hit anyone at anytime depending on how bad the offense committed against me is. But hitting someone I’m in a relationship with is kind of a little bit different for me.
You see, while growing up as a kid, I never for once saw my dad hit my mom whenever they were having an argument. He would always walk away and not talk to my mom for days, he wouldn’t even eat her food and then she’d be forced to go beg him and apologize. I remember one time I was having a conversation with mom and she said that my dad is so good at not talking to people that sometimes she’d wish he hit her instead and got the whole thing over with rather than not talk to her for days.
So that whole method my dad uses kind of got into me and before I knew it, I found myself doing it whenever I got offended. So I highly doubt I will be able to hit a lady I’m in a relationship with because that’s not the way I deal with things like that but if it was to be a random lady or someone else who decides that she can mess with me anyhow she likes because she’s a lady and feels I won’t be able to do anything to her, she has something else coming for her because being the bigger person and walking away doesn’t always work.