Benefits Of Building Good Relationships
Do you know that how you relate with others has it's benefits??
Oh yeah, what were you thinking, I certainly wasn't talking about the romantic relationship you're in now or thinking of entering into, haha.
One of the best ways to succeed in life is by building meaningful and productive relationships. Relationships are like connecting blocks to climbing your way up the ladder of life. One way or the other, one time or the other, the things we've done to or with other people has come back to be a blessing to us.
Ask yourself these questions
How do other people see you?
How well do I relate with other people?
Can anyone vouch for me?
Anytime I call for help would any body show up?
These are just a few of the questions you're supposed to ask yourself. Then look deeply and see if you have positive answers to those questions. I know most times human beings are selfish and unreliable, and sometimes they take us for granted when we show them too much of ourselves.
But know this, no one is an island. Most of the successful people you'll see today needed a lot of people and connections to get them where they are today. Yes, hardwork is also a big factor but of what use is it if you keep working hard and still don't reach the right set of audience or touch the right platform, it's all going to be futile.
I could remember how I missed a lot of opportunities because I was too shy and conservative. Even in my own house, I tend to miss up the chance to get things I really needed because I didn't know how to build the right relationship with my parents and siblings. It was something that really affected me.
When I entered the university, I started to open up and meet more and more people. I then started to learn how to talk with people, a good compliment went a long way, a little nod or smile or most importantly an act of kindness kept me in people's heart. Whenever they needed to do something, they remembered that there was someone who they could rely on and I ended up being referred.
I ended up getting more referrals, and before I knew it, I had created tons of relationships that one day would be beneficial to me. There really are a lot of benefits accruing to building good relationships. It could be unmerited favor, an amazing support, open doors, financial breakthrough and surely success.
Look at the Hive for example, I had been naive at first. But in the past few weeks I have been focusing more on building a strong relationship with other people. I just started to pay more attention to other people's posts, try to understand their personalities, always drop meaningful comments on their posts and legit support them in any way I can.
Slowly and gradually, the bond grows, without even knowing it, you're building something so amazing and strong that nothing can break. I always refer to the Hive everytime because the amount of love and amazing support I've seen cannot be contended with anywhere.
can you share some of the benefits you've had from building relationships with others??
I'll love you hear you all share your experiences.
Thank you for taking time to read this!! 🥺🥺❤️
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There is no substitude to building quality relationship both in offline and here on the hive.
I use to be a shy type as well but as time pass I have learn how to open up to the right people and build a lasting relationship. No man is an Island we need one another to not just suvive but to succeed as well.
Yes, @funshee, I'm glad you got over that shyness. You're doing pretty great now
I have always sucked at keeping in touch. I can be a loyal friend but only when you get me to open up. Although i have a very introverted personality, i am still able to relate when needed. Haha. To be honest, the only recent connection i have made is with my mentor and a cousin i never knew i had but just met. So... yes... cry with me. 😭
Lol, I'm trying to fight the introverted part of me too. I've sucked at keeping in touch too, I'm not exactly the calling type so it's hard for me.
Wow, your case is worse than mine, haha 😂..sorry we're supposed to be crying 😭😭
Lmao. You're funny. And I don't call people tbh. It's tedious for me. I feel it's better to meet and chill in person.
Yeahhhh...lol let's meet, and chill in person
😅...okay
You are consistent in writing and have good ideas @chincoculbert,
I am glad to have you as a friend and if you allow me I would like to give you a little hint. The first half of the story about relationships is kind of the teaching part of this write up. It's more of a punch line. It's where you want your reader to go.
I think it is better to walk the reader into a set up. Let them know where you are and where you are coming from. Your set up is something like this:
But your set up is not coming across. If you added even one very clear example then your though comes across to your audience. You can say something like this:
"My kindergarten self stood in the back of the room not knowing what to do. My parents had bought me a button jacket and I didn't know to unbutton it. The classroom was getting warm and my face was turning red. I was too shy to ask the teacher for help. I just stood there and did nothing because I was shy...."
That's kind of a set up. Now you have an audience and you got them going in your direction. Next you want to turn them in a direction they don't expect. That is a punchline. This is where the real usefulness of the article begins. You got the reader engaged and then feed him or her what you wanted to him or her. After getting a taste of your punchline they will come back for more.
I'm glad that you've seen me worthy to call a friend.
As always, thank you for the hints, slowly and gradually, you're putting me through this whole process of being a good writer here on the Hive. But truthfully, this write up was done In a haste. I was about to go prepare my brain to read for a test I have today then I remembered that I hadn't even written anything on the Hive, so I scribbled this piece. However! I'll take your corrections pretty closely and work on my set up.
True, it makes the whole post more enticing.
Thanks a lot @mineopoly
I know the rushed and hurried mode. One day we will have telepathic blogs and don't need to worry about in puting text. You are a really bright guy and a busy guy. We usually connect time zones when I'm on my way home from work and you are just waking up. Have a great day. I'm taking a walk in the mountain before the sun sets.
I can't wait for such days to come but I'm sure we'll still surely miss picking up our phones or laptops and typing out whatever we're thinking.
I believe that now, my self esteem has been elevated.
I'm glad you still make time to connect with me even though you've had a stressful day. Enjoy your work my friend. Over here it's about 9:50 in the morning and that test is scheduled for 10..
For the record, this is a double package from you.
After reading the post, I got to see your Interaction with @mineopoly and I must say that it shows that you are already building good relationship here.
This is impressive.
I've also been able to build decent relationships here and in the physical world although, when it comes to the physical, I tend to do alot of addition and subtraction because giving anyone my full attention. All thanks to past experience.
Well Done.
This is also moved to @dreemport ✌️
Relationship cross time and space and physical barriers and they are not always sugar coated.
For me, the impulse of putting a call across without a purpose has made me withdrawn from some people. Relationships are better built when there is closeness with another party.
At times, we get to disagree when perceived or expected attitude is not displayed. Our history sometimes design model for which we build our relationships.
I found your post via @dreemport.
Yeahh you're right. There has to be a certain level of closeness. But it cannot be achieved if either party doesn't put in a little effort and surely they'll have to be a defined purpose.
Word, our past experiences can affect the way we interact and relate with others.
Thanks for sharing your views @mrenglish 😌
I came here via #dreemport but developed an instant liking for your art of interaction and writing talent. Keep up the good job, you will soon be on top of the ladder.
For me, the relationship is the key factor that has always worked for me. I have a lot going on based on my relations but there is another factor when I see someone doing it for a selfish purpose, I get distracted immediately. All the best!
Thanks for the encouraging words @sunnyag , I'm still a work in progress, I hope to do a lot more in the near future.
Of course it is. Surely people try to take advantage of others because they open up and let them in, it's sorely wrong..
thanks for coming around my friend 😌
Building relationships are so important, I was also very shy and then I moved to very standoffish(so people said), so I missed a lot of meaningful moments and friendships.
I think now I am a lot better though.
@Dreemport brought me here
I never pictured you as being shy. You like a really outspoken person. Good thing you got over that shyness, no more opportunities are going to pass you by now.
Thank you for coming around dear
I am so shy that walking into a room till now is still a big problem.
I certainly know the feeling.
I don't like crowds but I don't have a choice, I'll have to meet people whether I like it or not and you'll do to.
So work in getting over it!!
I am working on it, faking it till I make it.
!LUV this @chincoculbert. People. Connection. Relationships. This is what being human is all about. It does take time and effort but it is so worth it for the genuine interactions you will end up having. !PIZZA my friend. I found my way to your post via @dreemport
It Is indeed time consuming but it is also fun. Meeting new people and interaction with them and getting to know about their cultures and traditions can be really fun
Thanks for the warm comment
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