Why you need to understand The Difference Between Need And Desire

Understanding the difference between need and desire is an important concept for everybody. You must be able to know which one you are dealing with at any given moment. If you believe that you are not in need, then how can you say that you are in want. It is the belief that needs to be changed if you truly wish to be happy..

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Everybody desires something. That something could be a car, a holiday, a new house, a new you, etc. The difference between these desires and needs is that people want what they don't have. They want what they don't have but don't have the ability to acquire it.

This is where you begin to create goals and visualize the end result. When you start creating goals, don't think about the right way to get there. Just think about the way that you would feel when you accomplish your goal. Think about what you would like to do, see, or experience when you do achieve that goal. These things are true desires and once you have found your desire, start putting the necessary action towards that goal.

Once you understand the difference between desire and need, then you are half way there. You are already half way there because desire is a natural emotion. It is something that we all have. Desire is the thing that drives us to achieve our goals and desires.

Desire and need are 2 sides of the same coin. On one side of the coin, you will have the desire, and on the other side, you will have need. Desire is the thing that gets you out of bed in the morning. Need is the thing that makes you go to work. If you did not need anything in your life, then you would not desire anything in your life either.

There are some people who have absolutely no desire in their lives. And this is unfortunate, because their lack of desire will prevent them from ever reaching their goals and desires. Most successful people have a very strong desire. And most of these people were not born with that desire. They developed this desire over their life, through hard work, struggle, and the help of others.

When you desire something, it is as if you are begging your body for it. You might hear that your desire is similar to a magnet. When you put the magnet close to a bar, and focus, it will cling to the bar. Similarly, when you focus on your desire, it will begin to cling to you.

Understanding the difference between need and desire will help you create more success in your life. People with strong desires tend to live incredibly successful lives. The desire behind their success is not that they possess a superior product or idea; instead, it is that they believe strongly in what they are doing. Therefore, they are attracted to people who share the same belief in what they are trying to accomplish.

If you are attracted to someone, but don't have the need to them, you are not doing yourself any favors. This may be similar to the difference between having an intense need and being obsessed with someone. Because you have the desire to be with this person, you will waste a lot of valuable energy pursuing them when there are plenty of perfectly suited candidates for the position.

You can lose sight of your goal, if your desire is too strong. When this happens, you become distracted by all of the options available to you. You may become fixated on one particular opportunity and not even consider all the other opportunities. Because you have so many good options, you get paralyzed with indecision. You are no closer to making a decision than you were before you began looking for a partner.

If you only have a weak desire, this is even more reason to choose wisely. You must choose someone who has a strong need for what you have to offer. If you are attracted to someone because they have money, it doesn't matter if they have poor financial management skills. You will not be happy with a relationship that involves poor communication skills and financial insecurity.

It is important to understand that you must be in love with the prospect before you proceed. You cannot hope to understand someone if you are fixated on them. You must allow yourself time to fall in love with them before you can put yourself in a position to make a commitment. Once you are in love, you can let the relationship grow.


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