When is The Right Time?
Hello everyone, it's Saturday night and I'm seated alone in my room listening to some Celine Dion, so I'm currently in my love state and as usual I have a relationship question bothering my not-so peaceful mind. And just in case y'all are wondering why I always ask these relationship related questions from time to time, maybe it's because I'm trying to prepare myself for what's to come. Lol.
Relationship is a unique thing because it kinda takes different form for different people and what works for this person might not work for the next person, this is why we learn as we go when it comes to relationship. That, I believe is one of the things that makes it unique but due to lack of a pattern, many people tend to get confuse as to the next step to take when it comes to certain situations in relationships.
A good question is, when is it right time to end a relationship?
It's might sound like a weird question I know, but this is one question I feel like not a lot of people ask, even though they should, because there are a lot of people out there who are currently battling with this same question, they just don't know it yet.
There's this couple I know that fights almost everytime they spend time together, if the girlfriend doesn't come up with something to accuse guy with, the guy would. And then the whole hostel would hear them shouting and yelling at each other, almost as if they're about to exchange fist, which they never do, but each time the conversation about them breaking up comes up, they both look at whoever is saying it like he or she is crazy, before going ahead to tell us that they love each other and want to be with each other.
But how can you love someone you're always fighting with, someone who the only time you guys seem to be at peace is when you're not together, but whenever she comes around, they start to fight (I'm not saying it's impossible to love such a person, it just sounds crazy to me). It is situation like that that makes me ask the "What if" question. What if what this couple need is not to be together, how do they get to that stage where they realize it? Is this even a question people in relationships think about or is this just another situation where I'm just over-thinking it and everything will sort itself out the moment I get to that stage, is it?
That's extreme. I can never quarrel with my man to the point of shouting at him or shouting at eachother. They may truly love themselves but that approach is very bad
They should rather break up abeg
But doesn't this kind of situations bring them closer to one another?
In my opinion most of people start their relationship in such kind of time when they were immature and that time they don't think practically and choose a wrong person. So clash is inviteable when they face the reality coming from the fantasy world.
But when the clash is consistent, you feel it's best to end it?
When one of them start to doubt unnecessary and try to dominate. And naturally nobody want to be dominated.