What really is Cheating??
When it comes to cheating, a lot of us have different definition for it. Some people feel cheating is when you sleep with someone else while others thinks that even talking to the opposite sex in some way is cheating. There seem to be a lot confusion about it and that is why I’m bringing the question over to us.
There had been a little bit of ruckus at my hostel this evening. The reason for it was something I felt wasn’t really a big deal but the more I thought about it, the more I saw reasons why the lady reacted the way she did.
Apparently, the guy had told his girlfriend that he was going to visit a male friend of his somewhere in town and though his girlfriend was a little bit skeptical about him going out because he rarely goes out, he had convinced her and she finally allowed him go (not like she could stop him anyways).
The dude had gone out and came back later that evening to meet an angry girlfriend waiting for him. He had no idea why she was upset until she told him that her friend had seen him with a lady in town.
The dude obviously didn’t have a response to that as he was indeed with a lady but according to him, nothing happened between them. He had lied to his girlfriend that he was going to see a male friend because he knew that if he had told her the truth, she wouldn’t had allowed him leave.
But then, he had been caught in his lie and now anything he says will be seen as a lie too even if it’s the truth. So the dude just quietly left the room to come sit outside with us as his girlfriend threatens to bring down the roof on him tonight. Hopefully they will settle the issue before my bedtime because the one thing I can’t tolerate is someone disturbing my sleep.