What do you think?

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Something happened about two weeks ago that made me ask myself a question that I still haven’t answered till date and then for some reason, while brushing my teeth earlier today, that question came back into my mind and I’m here to push it out to you guys. But before I do that, let me tell you guys a little background story as to how the question came to be.

A couple of weeks ago (about two weeks or there about) a friend of mine who stays at the same hostel came into my room and started to rant. He obviously was upset about something and I knew he only came into my room to get my point of view on the issue.

You see this friend of mine has a girlfriend who also has a female friend in the same hostel. This female friend had taken it upon herself to spy on my friend and when she saw him with two different ladies in his room on two different occasions, she had picked up her phone and called my friend’s girlfriend to tell her everything.

Only God knows what she said to his girlfriend because the next thing he got was a break up text from her accompanied with a lot of name calling. My friend had initially thought that his girlfriend’s sister was the one who snitched on him because she had seen him with the second lady when she visited so he had immediately gone to her room to ask her why she had given her sister wrong information because he had not done anything with either of the girls.

They were only ordinary friends to him and no one said you can’t be friends with the opposite sex once you’re in a relationship, it’s a relationship not a prison.

The sister had sworn that she wasn’t the one who snitched and she had even called his girlfriend in his presence and placed the phone on speaker before asking her who told her and the girlfriend mentioned who and that was when he came into my room.

His first plan had been to go confront the lady who told on him but then he knew if he did that, they would know that his girlfriend sister was the one who told him that the lady was the snitch so he came to ask what he can do.

While we talked about the issue and I tried to calm him down, I silently asked myself this question, did his girlfriend friend who snitched on him do anything wrong? Because if you look at it from one side, she was only having her friends back and if you looked at it from another angle, she just got herself involved in something that obviously wasn’t her business.

So what do you guys think, did she do something wrong by telling his girlfriend what she saw or she did the right thing?



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How do you see two ladies and you bring up your phone to call immediately, unless something had happened before that would suggest the guy cannot be trusted else I just see a lady being over concerned about a headache that's not for her. The girlfriend too is quite dramatic- what happened to trust?..Well they will be fine

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They will be fine. 😂😂😂

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Very dramatic 😂 May they be fine.😂

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As for me, I will say you don't have to be involved in something that is none of your business. But on the other hand, maybe his Girlfriend had kept her friend to spy on him and his every move that was why she told her friend, to her maybe she is protecting the interest of the friend. On the other hand, it might be jealousy.


Women are too complicated to understand abeg.
The girlfriend on her side was too quick to action la.
for her to act fast means she does not even have any atom of trust in her Boyfriend.


Relationship is just too complicated.

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The girlfriend has issue ..its is norMal for people to talk , either false news or facts, but it matters how you handle the information sent.

Your friend dogged a bullet o, if she couldn’t ask questions first then its her lost .

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Lol.. You might be right you know but maybe he has been showing signs of not being trustworthy.

Maybe that’s why she believed her friend immediately.

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Relationship is built on love and trust dear. First,the girlfriends friend is too nosy. I doubt her intentions are good.

As human, even if I see my friend's boyfriend with another woman or lady, I won't just go and run my mouth. I have to be sure my friend is smart and emotionally capable of handling the news.

I'll preferably let her find out alone. Trust me catching cheats ain't even hard. I may leave clues but not just go direct unless there's really a need.
I also have to be sure of my speculations before I open my mouth.

My advice is this: he should ignore the girl who snitched on him "falsely".
I don't like responding to situations immediately and I like giving people the impression that I don't know they're responsible for some bad things that happened to me. Trust me, there are perfect opportunities for revealing things.

The guy should just talk to his girlfriend and she should learn to trust him. She acted a bit too irrational, it was just a mere hearsay.

If his girlfriend's friend's intention was genuine, he'll figure out with time.

If he goes all angry and confront the girl, first he'll be revealing his source.
Also the girl may not like to tell his girlfriend stuffs again.
I think it's best if his girlfriend talks to her friend politely to always be sure of things before spilling it.

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Wow this is a lot 😅

The part about his girlfriend talking to her friend might be a little bit difficult though because according to my friend, his girlfriend believes everything she told her.

Currently they’re both at the verge of breaking up. I really don’t want to get involved much so I guess I will just stand and watch and see how the whole thing goes.

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Ohhhh. Then there must be a reason why the girl trusts her friend's words. Relationship Wahala no dey finish shaaa. It's best you just sit and watch.

Keep us updated😂😂😂😂

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For me, I'll say that idea of telling her girlfriend to snitch on her boyfriend was uncalled for. And it might also mean that she might also be cheating on her boyfriend that's why she easily called off the relationship.

This is my opinion.

It was interesting reading through this good job @prayzz, you're doing well.

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Hmmm you know I never really looked at it from this angle, her cheating.

Anyways, thanks for reading.

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You're welcome but please I'm a girl 😥😥.

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Wow!!! I didn't know that I swear..But you still can be my G though. 😂

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No probs, I can be your G but please don't forget I'm a girl, hehehe 😂.

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