What do you think?
Something happened about two weeks ago that made me ask myself a question that I still haven’t answered till date and then for some reason, while brushing my teeth earlier today, that question came back into my mind and I’m here to push it out to you guys. But before I do that, let me tell you guys a little background story as to how the question came to be.
A couple of weeks ago (about two weeks or there about) a friend of mine who stays at the same hostel came into my room and started to rant. He obviously was upset about something and I knew he only came into my room to get my point of view on the issue.
You see this friend of mine has a girlfriend who also has a female friend in the same hostel. This female friend had taken it upon herself to spy on my friend and when she saw him with two different ladies in his room on two different occasions, she had picked up her phone and called my friend’s girlfriend to tell her everything.
Only God knows what she said to his girlfriend because the next thing he got was a break up text from her accompanied with a lot of name calling. My friend had initially thought that his girlfriend’s sister was the one who snitched on him because she had seen him with the second lady when she visited so he had immediately gone to her room to ask her why she had given her sister wrong information because he had not done anything with either of the girls.
They were only ordinary friends to him and no one said you can’t be friends with the opposite sex once you’re in a relationship, it’s a relationship not a prison.
The sister had sworn that she wasn’t the one who snitched and she had even called his girlfriend in his presence and placed the phone on speaker before asking her who told her and the girlfriend mentioned who and that was when he came into my room.
His first plan had been to go confront the lady who told on him but then he knew if he did that, they would know that his girlfriend sister was the one who told him that the lady was the snitch so he came to ask what he can do.
While we talked about the issue and I tried to calm him down, I silently asked myself this question, did his girlfriend friend who snitched on him do anything wrong? Because if you look at it from one side, she was only having her friends back and if you looked at it from another angle, she just got herself involved in something that obviously wasn’t her business.
So what do you guys think, did she do something wrong by telling his girlfriend what she saw or she did the right thing?