Two Sides of a coin

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When I saw today's topic, I had to think about it for a bit because I haven't really thought about my strength and weakness in a while. But thinking about it now, I could think of two things as my strength and my weakness and I will be starting with that of the strength first.

One thing I will say is my strength is my ability to think ahead. A lot of people say overthinking isn't really a good thing and I agree with them but only when someone does it too much and allows it to maybe ruin things in their lives but as for someone like me, being an overthinker is kind of like my superpower.

Having to think ahead of things and provide solutions for multiple scenarios concerning that one thing has always seen me easily coming out of almost any situation I find myself into, so yeah that's my strength and it makes me feel very powerful.

My weakness on the other hand is something that I'm seriously working on because I'm tired of the same thing happening to me over and over again. My weakness is that I care too much for people, even those that wouldn't give a damn about me if I'm the one in a difficult situation. There have been times when people who I call my friends do things to me in ways I never imagined and then I swear to reciprocate and have my revenge but then as time goes on, I find myself wanting to let go of that grudge and just let everything slide.

I know it's a good thing and shouldn't be seen as a weakness but then when people notice these things about you, they no longer do things with caution when it comes to you because they know that even if you get offended, there's nothing you're going to do because you're just going to look past it just like you've always done in the past.

I know that bad characters and attitude from people shouldn't change the kindness in our hearts but I do feel like there should be days where we keep the kindness aside and then give them a little taste of their own medicine, maybe then they will learn to respect and value the kind you because they now know that the other side of you isn't to be messed with.



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