Shoot your Shot

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If there’s one thing I want the ladies over here to normalize, it will be walking up to the man they like and telling him how they feel about him. I remember asking a couple of my female friends if they would be able to do that and they all said no, I asked them their reasons and they basically said the same thing but with different words, they don’t want the guy to look down at them.

For some reason they all think that if they man up (or in this case, woman up) and go tell a guy how they feel and he turns them down, then it’s a huge embarrassment to them and that the guy might also see them as being cheap. It’s funny how they think that way when they do the same thing to guys every day and the guys just move on like nothing happened because that’s life, you can’t always win. Have you ever thought about how it would be if everyone woman we’ve ever wooed had said yes to us, there wouldn’t be any single lady out there you know, lol.

But to be completely honest, not all men think the same way and just because you were bold enough to go tell a man how you feel about him doesn’t mean he has to feel the same way too. The same way you ladies say no to guys is the same way they will say no to you if they don’t want to be with you.

I remember some time back when this female friend of mine opened up to me and told me how she felt towards me. I was so happy that she was bold enough to do that but unfortunately I had to say no because of bad timing. I was seeing someone at the time and couldn’t end things with her just to go be with another person because I’m not built that way.

Unfortunately when our relationship finally came to its final bustop, the other lady had moved on. But nevertheless, I’m sure you guys get my point. It’s never a bad idea to go for what you want. Shoot your shots Queens, you never know what might happen.