Natural Player
People (especially ladies) always say that men are born naturally to cheat and for a while I found myself fighting on behalf of the men until I really started to go out there and soon realize that that saying wasn't really far from the truth. The majority of guys I've known are just natural cheaters and even those who currently aren't in a relationship don't see themselves being faithful to just one lady if they do decide to date.
And at first it just felt like a curse or something close to it but I soon realized that some guys cheat not because they enjoy cheating but because there's this fun that comes with it. Let me explain.
But please bear in mind that this post is not in anyway justifying men cheating, I'm just trying to tell you guys how I feel most men reason from my own point of view and with that said, also have it at the back of your mind that I might be wrong too.
Anyways, according to what I've heard from some guys, I've come to the conclusion that not all men want to cheat, some of them just get bored of their current relationship and while in search of something fun, they find themselves cheating.
Now when it comes to relationship and dating, I believe the first year of you guys being together is usually the year with the most fun. That's the year you feel like you've found the one and never want anything to do with anyone else but then time starts to go by and you begin to get bored.
I honestly don't know if this happens to the ladies too but speaking from a guy's perspective, some of the guys do get bored and to some of them, the only fun thing they can do is try to woo other ladies, to see if they still got what it takes to get a lady. And from experience, I've come to realize that the most fun part in the relationship is the beginning, just when you're starting to woo the lady.
There's this feeling that I just can't find the right word for it. But most guys enjoy this feeling and they just decide to go along with it but in the process, the lady they're wooing might fall for them and seeing how they already started, most of this men will decide to just go all the way which means cheating.
Now this is what I honestly think happens to some of these men (not most of them because some of them just want to cheat). They get bored and just feel like trying something new and because to them it's just a game to see if they still got what it takes, they refuse to break up with their current partner because they still love them and only want something temporary, an excitement with the new person they're wooing.
But then this whole thing night just be some huge crap coming from me, so I'd appreciate it if you tell me your thoughts in the comment section below.
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Well, you are right. In every of my previous relationships, my exes cheated and that's why I still always say it that every men cheat.
Now, the fact that my man will cheat would not stop me from loving him. The only thing that could warrant that is if he does it to my face because that is just like he disrespecting me...
I get you, but isn't cheating on you already disrespecting you?
I think differently in that kind of situation. I think most of the ladies choose those guys who are not good. Let me explain why. If a lady choose a good guy he will be loyal and remain serious about his career. He won't have too much time for the lady also for that reason. It's a reason also most of the ladies don't fall in love with a good guy because they want importance all the time with is not possible every time. So I feel they choose the cheaters and allow them to cheat. I don't see anything wrong because it's natural.
I have a question though.. What kind of guys do you call good guys?
It's complicated 😂😂. Ok, let me try to explain with few words.
Good character+personality+self respect+serious in career+understand the true value of relationship+love is not only emotion but also responsibility.
If one started to feel bore at the middle of relationship and try to make relationship with others I would prefer to say them characterless guy.
Well I do believe that a lot of things so lead to someone cheating and ermm, good guys cheat too. You just have to be with who you want to be with and hope for the best.
If anyone cheating then how he could be good. If he feel that someone is not best or perfect for them then they can make a break-up stating the point. It won't be cheating. But double relationship is cheating. And several times break-up for the same reason means he is characterless person.