Is It Possible?

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I remember how people will say money can't buy happiness and then they realized that there are different kinds of happiness and that a lot of them can be bought with money, so they turned their focus elsewhere, to love and now they say money can't buy love.

You know often times I've asked myself if it is true, if money indeed can't buy love and many years ago I would always come to the same conclusion that no, money can't buy love but then I learnt about something that changed my mind entirely.

You see back in those days when people were not educated and less civilized, some women didn't really get to choose their husbands because back then, women were sort of powerless. The man just have to make their father happy and then you're off with him as his new wife. You see most of the women didn't like that for obvious reasons because they have no feelings for this men, no love. But then as time goes by, they learn to love this men and then before they know it, they're happy they got married to their husband who they're now very much in love with.

Remember they had no feelings for this man but now they love him with all of their heart.

What I'm trying to say is that sometimes, love takes time and though some people will argue that money can't buy love, I say it somehow can (not directly but it will pave the way for you) because I've seen cases where ladies agree to date a man not because they love him but because of the money he has, hoping to dump him when they've gotten enough but somewhere along the line, they end up falling very much in love with the guy to the extent where they no longer want to leave him.

So yeah, money does buy love in some way, not directly but it does. As for the exact amount you have to have to be able to do that, I honestly don't know, you just have to be rich.



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Well, I wouldn't disagree with you on this because you have a point there but if you have to see it from another perspective where the rich person in question only has a lot of possession, the love will continue to grow until there is no money. The reason why a lady develops feelings along the way is that there is still a better chance of the money growing and so, they wouldn't want to leave. If you have to go further to confirm, you will see that the love they have is for the money and not the man.
My opinion though 😊

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You may be right but one thing I know for sure is money makes things easier, that's why I never said money can buy love but it can make the whole process easy.

That lady wouldn't give audience to a broke guy but she would to a rich man.

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Money is only a tool. It will take you wherever you wish, but it will not replace you as the driver. especially when it comes to love.

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Yeah that's true.. I guess money will give you access but for people to you, you have to be lovable.

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The issue about love and money is deep. Money may attract, yes! Everyone wants to live a comfortable life but it comes a time when you realize love isn't money related but needs the both to be happy. So money works well with happiness but not directly with love

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This is exactly my point of view as well. People say that love cannot be bought, but few realize that having money gives you an advantage when being loved.

For example, I have certain things that I admire in certain women: Ladies that smell really pleasant, dress decently yet with style, have good self-esteem and self-confidence. A lady that can independently take care of herself. A lady who is generous and kind. These are personality traits that can only manifest themselves better with good financial standing.

When a lady has attributes that I find attractive, it makes it so easy to fall in love with her. Mate, you will agree with me on what I am trying to say.

Imagine being in a relationship that is based on low financial standards. It makes the relationship susceptible to some kinds of issues, issues that could easily be out of the equation.

I do not mean to imply that money can directly buy love, but that money can buy one's tendency (or inclination) to love.

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I do not mean to imply that money can directly buy love, but that money can buy one's tendency (or inclination) to love.

Exactly what I was saying bro, I agree one hundred percent with you.

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