RE: How to deal with ungrateful people everyday
Some people like a challenge. Some people like to be loved. Most people like both.
There are genuinely nice people, who want the best for you. But they have nothing to offer you. They don't make you laugh. They don't have anything interesting going on. They can't entertain you. What are you supposed to do with them?
On the other hand, there are people pretending to be nice.
It's mostly those nice guys, who are secretly keeping score. They're not doing something because they like you and want you to feel good. They do it, so that you owe them one.
That's the whole simp and friendzone problem. They secretly resent you, because they can't believe they can't cash in their friendpoints for sex!