Hello friends, this is a very interesting entry for @ecency-star that makes us reflect every day.

Happiness is something relative, what makes us happy may bother someone else but only one thing is for sure if we cannot be happy alone we cannot be happy as a couple so we have to analyze ourselves and enjoy the little things but here is what it makes me happy.

JUST SEEING MY WIFE SMILE

Although I said that you should not tie happiness to a person, but my wife is the most beautiful thing in my life, she is the woman I love and that is why even after 13 years of marriage, one day I am angry with her, I am depressed or Like this one, if I just see her smile, it changes my mood and immediately makes me happy.

That's why I try to make them smile so their joy infects me since sometimes I am very depressed.

WHEN MY DAUGHTERS HUG ME AND TELL ME THEY LOVE ME IN AN UNEXPECTED WAY

When you have children and you wait for them and say together with the woman you love, it is wonderful, to feel her hugs, her affection. Although of course it is difficult because many times they get into mischief and it makes it difficult to find a moment as a couple with your wife, if you are a father and not just a husband, the love of your children is wonderful despite the mistakes you may make.

Something wonderful that always changes my mood and makes me happy is when I'm sad or upset with my wife or about anything, or just sitting down, my daughters suddenly start hugging me, it's wonderful,

Also a little less but very close, I like to kneel down and open my arms so that my daughters from afar can run and hug me, it's wonderful.

BE RELAXED AND LISTEN TO CLASSICAL MUSIC

Something that brings me tranquility and happiness is listening to classical music, which is my favorite, my favorite authors from the end of classism, MOZART, and the beginning of romanticism, Ludwig van Beethoven, Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky, Frederic Chopin.

Being MOZART, CHOPIN has pieces that are calm and although there are pieces that are energetic, it is a calmer energy unlike BEETHOVEN whose first pieces have great influence from MOZART and similar people with whom he received classes and shared until he began to perform. With his style he shows what this author is the transition between classism and romanticism and being CHAIKOVSKI who completely embarks on romanticism with his energetic pieces, expression of a wind and a storm.

BEETHOVEN in particular is an example of perseverance even in the most extreme conditions since his most famous and avant-garde works, the most remembered, such as Symphony Number 9, were made when he became completely deaf.

fuente de la imagen https://diversionmusical.wordpress.com/2016/01/05/beethoven/

Imagine for a musician that upon seeing an illness that was gradually leaving him without the sense that allowed him to enjoy what he liked most, music, what many would do is fall into an armchair and a bed to die. BEETHOVEN made his most beautiful works even when he could not listen or direct them since for that you need to hear, it is an example of life.

Another thing that I like is the music of the national orchestra system played by Latin American composers and symphonic versions of Venezuelan songs that are masterful like PAJARILLO, DIABLO SUELTO, ETC.

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This national orchestra system is an example to follow worldwide because they take children from poor places out of the hands of crime since they give them their instruments and many of them end up in professional orchestras and many of them would surely end up in prison for committing crimes. Since where they live there are temptations because it is what they see every day as something normal.

WALK THROUGH NATURE TO THINK ALONE

Walking through nature, listening to the birds sing, the breeze caressing my face and the sound of the trees being swayed by the wind is sublime, so if I am upset, sad or anxious it passes and I begin to see life with more optimism, this in conclusion gives me a connection with God when seeing his sublime work.

If when I am walking I am together with my wife walking hand in hand it is wonderful and my joy is even greater, even more giving us a kiss or caressing each other in the middle of the immensity of nature is even more wonderful.

FINISH A CARPENTRY, ELECTRONIC, OR ANYTHING JOB THAT INVOLVES A CHALLENGE ON MY PART

Another aspect is that I love fixing things and creating things. If there is any device or toy or whatever that is damaged, due to use, an accident or whatever, or there is any difficulty that with ingenuity or some solution that was proposed and even more so if my wife or someone did not believe in what I would achieve. solving it is very satisfying and gives me a lot of joy, in fact I really enjoy the process of looking for how to repair it or do it until it culminates in the greater joy of finishing the job.
That's why I want to learn more things that increase my knowledge and skills of fixing things and if in that process I am of help to someone I don't know, the joy is even greater.

Although of course when I manage to solve something the joy of seeing my work successfully completed, which I enjoy, joins the joy of seeing my wife's smile and often even dissolves into passion, there the joy is even greater.

Also seeing how my daughters confide that I fix a toy or something that they give me and if I manage to do so, seeing the joy on their wonderful faces increases the joy of my heart and soul even more.

I hope you like it and I look forward to your comments