How Often Do You Take Blames?
Whether we like it or not, we unconsciously shift blames sometimes.
I have a friend who once said that the way he was before was that he doesn't like taking all the blame. So whether consciously or unconsciously, the blame will always have to be shared because whatever warranted the blames is something that couldn't possibly be his fault, and even if he was to be among, it is impossible for him to be alone.
So for that case, if everyone were at fault then everyone needs to take the blame and pay the penalty for whatever it was.
Personally, there are things I feel guilty about, my conscience pricks me but most times those things are things I shouldn't even blame myself in the first place but I usually see myself being hard on myself and pushing every blame to my side while others go scot free most times.
I was like that for a while and though it's not as before I can still say that I get worried about some things sometimes that it makes me blame myself if ever that thing turns out badly.
How Often Do You Take Blames?
Are you among those that take all the blames
Or among those who like shifting or sharing of blames.
How about those who like it 50/50?
Whatever the case may be, whether we are the blame takers or the blame sharers, it's all our choices, and no one else.
Happy New Month wonderful people!
Thank you for being supportive always.
2nd September 2021
Nice write up buddy. Taking blames sometimes doesn't mean you are weak or you don't know what to do. It's just that you are trying to be mature.
Maybe its not really about maturity but its about pushing things aside for the happiness of others and this is what sacrificial love is.
Yeah exactly when you don't take blames sometimes it can sometimes lead to misunderstanding which most people don't like even myself
Yeah dear. I am glad you know this too
Yeah it's mutual but not everyone knows that
Yes you are right though
But you know sometimes some take that as stupidity that someone isn't normal