RE: What Do you think?
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I don't bother about the benefits while making friends, I don't like friends with benefits because when the benefit gets lost you won't find that friendship bond too, the thread that was connecting the both end gets lost. In my case friendships grow naturally, all I am concerned about is not inhaling anything negative from them so I stay careful about those while mixing.
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Well that's true. If the reason why you guys became friends is because you're benefitting something from that person, you most likely would leave when that thing is no longer there.
But when choosing our friends, shouldn't there be something we should look out for, something that will make us want to be friends with them?
I don't have any specific things to filter with, they come naturally, maybe a common game we played, a common friend who introduced us, maybe a school bench we shared together, and gradually from there, we start to communicate and find our common interests to strengthen our bond.
I am getting your point, I might be looking for someone who won't be influencing me toward unethical things, and won't be toxic, helpful, and like-minded. It may vary from person to person.
Hmm alright.. I guess it's just like flowing with the vibes you're getting from that person. If the person turns out to be the kind of person you want as a friend, then you guys will become friends.. If he's not, you will withdraw yourself.
Yeap!