Good evening everybody, hope your day went well.
Today i want to talk about marriage and divorce.

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Sometimes, whenever i read about divorce papers of some marriages it breaks my heart and i always pray it shouldn't happen to me. Before going into what we call marriage, we all need to understand one thing, that it's more than the picture we all have in our head.
I can recap that i attended my father's friend wedding few years back, it's was one of the best wedding i attended then, it was awesome.You won't believe what happen, after few months i was very shocked to hear the saying he is planning to divorce his wife ....
I saw in his face that his mind was made up, before this his wife had gotten her apartment. I felt so bad cos i didn't think that could happen after everything. So many people rush into marriage with the mind that they will stay all beautiful.
I have been able to see the picture in marriage, marriage is all about sacrificial living is about sacrifice, you have to make a lots of sacrifices.

In marriage you need to take shits, a lots of shits you need to learn how to tolerate each other. I can take example from my parents my dad has done so many wrongs, he has committed so many unpleasant doings to her wife but at the end this is marriage.

My dad is the husband; and my mom is still the wife
In marriage the inability to accept and forgive at the same time can't make it work out, you need to know there is no perfect marriage.
Just like, if you have a crack on your wall you won't take down the whole building; you will look for a way to amend wall.
One of the secret in marriage is, you need to show you are human when you are in the position of a husband, you need to confess your faults and also share your struggles to your wife. Doing this will bring love and full acceptance, it's bring empathy. Same apply to the wife, as a wife you also share your struggles and desires to your partner.

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Understand that a good spouse will show you good understanding, love and care, there are no bad ones, just that one not fit for your, always kill any kind of cheating, do not leave your home.

Love is beautiful!!

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