Don't Get Stuck

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Every day I wake up, I always have this mindset that no matter what people would do to me to hurt me or make me be in pain or sorrow, I would not seat and milk over those pain or build castles on their hurt.

Although I might feel hurt and would feel like keeping grudges or anger for what they did to me, I wouldn't dwell on them because have got so much to do in life and haven't got space to dwell or build castles over my hurt and over time these have taught me how to deal with human beings.

I don't have expectations from them because they are human and can decide to change consciously or unconsciously or perhaps make mistakes they never intended to make and building castles over their pain and all of that is not going to stop them from doing what they need to do but it's going to stop me from doing what needs to be done and you know what they say, "Life doesn't stop for anybody."

So grudges and anger and negativity, I don't have time for it because I'm living to do so many positive things.



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No matter how many emotions and feelings you may have or how much hurt you may have, life has to go on. Life doesn't stop for anybody. So if you don't process that and understand that as long as you've refused to move on from your past hurt or pain, it means you are stuck in whatever period you got hurt forever. I mean forever!

You got hurt by friends and family or perhaps you got heartbroken by your ten years boyfriend or girlfriend who over the years you had expected walking down the aisle with him or her, I know h you feel, but I tell you this, life has to go on. and because of your emotions or hurt, you've refused to move on, and give love a chance, you are damn stuck in that period of your life putting a hold on the important things that you should be doing or have done and until you realize that life has to go on, you are stuck in that period forever.

Don't get stuck grimacing over unnecessary things when you're supposed to be living your life doing so many positive things, it isn't worth it.



Thank you all for always finding time to read through my content, my happiness has no bounds when I see your comment, reblogs, and upvote on my articles. I pray that God bless you all for real.

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