Create Your Happiness

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It's so funny and distressing to know that in the world where we live, how elders and some of the people around us still do feel that getting married is fulfilling.

Well, don't get me wrong, I am not against marriages of any sort and I am not saying it isn't wonderful and fulfilling to get married most especially to the person you love and cherish, but all I am saying is being fulfilled doesn't end only in getting married.

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Marriage is great, love is great, it is and can be fulfilling with the imperfect person who makes you whole and complete. However, if we are doing our work and finding out what makes us happy, what makes us fulfilled and we're relying on the union to do that, we'll only find ourselves becoming manipulators to get what we want.

Because we feel that the union is supposed to make us fulfilled, we begin to expect so much from the union without giving out ourselves and when we are not receiving what we expected, we become frustrated and regret going into the union.



We expect that the person or the relationship is supposed to provide us something or give us that inner peace and joy which it would but it doesn't end there because being fulfilled doesn't end there.

You and only you can create your happiness and the same goes for our significance. Do the work to find out what makes you happy, and find out what makes you fulfilled. Don't wait for a relationship, a person, or a union because those things are only part of what makes us fulfilled.

Create your happiness, don't wait for someone, a person, a group of people, a relationship, or a union that makes you happy because just one day, those people would leave you or be no more but when you can create your happiness, whether they are there with you or far away from you, you will always be happy and fulfilled.



Your fulfillment, your happiness is in your hands, you are the dream, as long as you work on yourself, you are fulfilling and completing everything necessary to make you fulfilled and happy. Your union, the relationship is just an addition of what makes you happy.

If you can't work your own happiness and what makes you fulfilled, no man and no one will. You are the custodian of your happiness, not your relationship, friends, or union.



Thank you all for always finding time to read through my content, my happiness has no bounds when I see your comment, reblogs, and upvote on my articles. I pray that God bless you all for real.





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