RE: Weed Abuse, It's Problems and how to Use it properly.
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But if the person is a stubborn type who feels genuinely innocent he/ she might not open up.
I agree. I want to add:
I would interpret that as a sign or test towards the adult person. Not opening up means, there is not yet enough trust involved. Children test you out very much so. They clearly notice and hear you, when you speak about principles but then don't follow them. So, they give you the great chance to stand to your words; or they reveal your hypocracy just instantly. If you fail, if you get impatient and self-rightious or insecure, they'll find out. If they act innocent and think they can trick you, they'll notice whether you let yourself being tricked. Actually, one knowing smile, without even using words, is enough.
If they are innocent, they cannot be stubborn at the same time, is what I think. LOL
I learned not to speak about principles and try to avoid speaking about them at all, only act situationally in what I think is appropriate for the situation without riding principles. Aren't we all oh so annoyed about others, riding the horse of principles to death? While we have a blind eye when riding them ourselves? ;-)
The direction of your philosophy is so logically and rationally sound. It pleases me a lot to hear you are the type of individual who thinks so freely and reasonable. You don't side the society and even yourself. You know and admit when you are wrong and you don't claim you are perfect.
Don't stop, I'm proud of you. Mainly because you have improved me as a young man still not so used to life. But with what you have told me, I'm now getting to know more about life. Gorgeous!
I am happy about these words, it is very unusual to be told such things. I have been on this crypto platform since 2017 now and for a while I had contact with some people from your continent, it may even have been Nigeria. I have noticed how differently you talk to people and especially older people. I don't know if it's wishful thinking on my part, but something seems to resonate culturally that I haven't encountered in my country.
Almost never has a younger person thanked me for a dialogue or an experience I shared. I probably didn't do it so explicitly myself as a young woman. However, I made up for it later with some people and expressed my appreciation. It is just as gratifying, if not more so, to give something to another in which you honestly express a feeling.
So tell me, are you an exception or the rule? :D
It's alright, I'm happy that you are happy and pleased with me.
Well, I'm an exception (smiles)